Sunday 9 September 2012

Root Cause of our Children's behaviour.

I read today elsewhere, that it is not through the grammar we teach a child its language. It learns by mimicking or by listening. My wife Sarsa gave her perspective that it is not just mimicking, but it is the observation of a child which gives the child the power to mimic, analyze, adapt & mold the behavior or pick up a new language or skill. So true.

We are just not aware how our child is observing us when he or she is young. We are not perceptive enough due to pressures of Life to realize that our child is drawing its conclusions on our behavior patterns. So our role as the first gurus to our child is very critical when bringing up the child by becoming aware that, we are indirectly molding the behavior of our children from the way we behave.

We as parents are primarily responsible for the way our children behave in society.

2 comments:

  1. Hi Sharath Uncle! I have started reading your blog...thought provoking articles...
    About the above articles, i always notice when little kids make comments on things which are not in their grasp they often express the opinions of their parents..the first kind of learning is always just watching and mimicking actions and words...

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